Just Can’t Get There.

Day before yesterday I was suffering from mild diarrhea so I decided not to try and go to Wegman’s in Raleigh. Yesterday, I was feeling much better and headed up to Raleigh again. Not sure why, but this time I didn’t take my shortcut, bypassing Bunnlevel, but went through the small town. Not actually sure I would call it a town. It does have a Post Office, Fire Department, a Dollar General and a church, but not much else. 45 miles per hour, and zip you’re through it.

My crass joke is based upon the simple observation of “Why won’t they ever build a high school in Bunnlevel?” And the reply is, “Because they would have to call it Ass Hole High.” If you’re from Bunnlevel, I’m pretty sure that’s an offensive joke, but as far as humor goes, it’s “spot on.”

I got to Lillington and decided to drive by the junk store. It was open and I went to a small parking lot nearby and walked back to it. I like many of the things they have. Unlike some junk stores, I find interesting things there, and I’ve bought items in the past. I bought a set of Lennox glasses once and there must have been at least 10 in the set because I think I kept four of them and gave six away. I ended up buying an “Azalea Coast” cook book for $4 plus tax. This cookbook didn’t fit my standard. No colorful pictures, but there were recipes from Wilmington, North Carolina and the nearby region of Pender, Hanover, and Brunswick Counties.

After Lillington I headed up and dropped off a couple of books at a Little Lending Library that I’ve visited before. This is the one where I once left a book that had some personal items in it. The book had an old driver’s license, a photo of a relative’s child, and maybe a Christmas card. The owner of the LLL returned these items to me via the U.S. Postal Service. But what do you expect from someone that leaves those types of personal items in a book? I didn’t open the letter that the person sent immediately. In fact, I think it may have been about 3 months before I opened it and read the note. And even worse, I didn’t send a thank you note anytime soon.

But yesterday I was in Fuquay Varina and stopped at their Walmart for the second time, maybe ever. A few weeks ago I had actually stopped there and bought a small hand vacuum cleaner. That broke the ice, and yesterday I stopped in and bought two things: a box of boxed matches and finally I bought a Walmart Gift Card. The store clerk was very helpful and even pointed me to the matches on H11.

I walked out to my car and as I was starting it up, I looked and saw the tire warning light on my dash. I checked and it said that my rear driver’s side tire only had 28 pounds of pressure. The rest of the tires had around 36/37 pounds. I had to decide what to do. I even asked Gemini what I should do. A tire store, or service station were a few of the suggestions. I asked if there was a Black’s Tire Service in the area. There was one in Apex, about 10 miles away. I thought through the process and decided I didn’t want to continue on to Wegman’s in Raleigh, buy some White American Cheese & the Bigelow Raspberry Royale tea (before Trump Tariffs stop things from being imported, or drive up prices so high). Yeah, I didn’t want to be sitting in my car in the Wegman’s parking lot, with cheese that needs refrigeration.

So, I started back home, and kept watch on the tire pressure. I might have gone twenty mile before the tire pressure dropped from 28 to 27. Once it did that, I knew I had made the right decision. And now the process began to gel in my mind. I had a box of trash in the trunk, but I wanted to get the tire from my apartment before I went to Black’s Tires. I think the rear tire pressure did drop to 26 as I neared home. I decided to put the trash in my back seat, and got the old tire and put it in the trunk. This was just the tire and not on a rim.

I made it to Black’s Tire Service on Ramsey Street, next to Methodist University without further problems. I told the young woman clerk that I had a tire leak and that I had a spare that could be put on a rim if necessary. Sure enough this was about the third tire, with a nail or wire, in a location that meant it couldn’t be repaired. And the clerk forgot about the spare that I had brought and quoted me a price of about $242 for the one new tire. I walked and sat back down in the waiting area, but my mind was processing the situation. Had she said that my tire couldn’t be repaired? I got back up and asked her. Sure enough she said it couldn’t be repaired and I asked why they couldn’t put the spare I had brought. She rushed out to tell the tech to put my spare on, which he did and my total bill ended up being only about $42. So having kept that old tire, even if it didn’t have a lot of tire tread, did finally pay off.

I now had good tires all around, but I wasn’t going to go back to Raleigh, but I now wanted to go to the La-Z-Boy in Fayetteville to give a saleswoman a copy of “Becoming” a bio by Michelle Obama. I had stopped in the store on Sunday looking to see what easy chairs they had. I think the first one I sat in was about $3K, and the rest appeared to be in that price range. So needless to say, I wouldn’t be buying from La-Z-Boy again.

Like, but not.

I had bought a sofa & love seat and my bent wood “Easy” chair there back in 2011 when I first moved to Long Hill Apartments. Eventually I gave the sofa & love seat to Jeff and Robin, and I’m guessing they have just moved that furniture with them to their new home. I haven’t gone to their new home yet, but have a bunch of “art” books for Ashlyn when I do.

I didn’t recall the name of the La-Z-Boy saleswoman, but we had a long conversation and I recalled that we had talked about her using an AI to organize a book she was writing. She was working and once I got close enough, I asked, “Did we have a conversation about how you were using AI to organize a book you were writing,” to which she replied, “Yes.” I told her I had a book for her. She thanked me and hugged me. I left. I hope she enjoys the book. It was a very enjoyable book and inspiring.

Oddly enough, I bought the book in Dunn at “Cat’s Corner.” I paid a little more than I had wanted, but I did want to give this book as a gift. But the “oddly” was that after I bought the book I saw Michelle Obama on TV talking about “doing stuff for herself.” I don’t think she actually said she wasn’t planning to not divorce Barak Obama, and he seemed to be apologetic in having “run up a tab” with his wife that he was trying to pay. I like them both, even if they do divorce. She hasn’t attended at least two events that you would normally think she would have. The funeral of former President Jimmy Carter, and the Inauguration of Donald Trump.

I definitely could see not attending anything for Trump. That was something that Hillary and Bill Clinton should have skipped. As I’ve said elsewhere, “If someone had called my wife ‘That lying Hillary’ over and over again during the Campaign, I sure wouldn’t have attended any event for them. And Trump actually thanked them both for their long civic service and had everyone stand and clap. How two-faced can you get? I think I know.

So, with her showing up on TV after a long time of not being on TV seemed almost prophetic. I figure the book will be enjoyed. I hope.

I’m now living under a Hex to not be able to get to Wegman’s and get the Raspberry Royale.

I’m supposed to get my new waffle iron today. A Cuisinart WMR-CAP2 Round Classic Waffle Maker, Brushed Stainless,Silver from Amazon. *Messaged that it was delivered, to a parcel locker, but no key in the mailbox. I left a note the next morning, and when I got back home the key was in the box. I got the new waffle iron. Hope it’s in working condition. Unboxed, looks a little flimsy.

Purchase Date: 04/08/2025
Date of Delivery: 04/12/2025
Purchased From: AMAZON.COM
Price: $24.95

I plan to give my old one to the Northwoods Thrift Store. It’s been a long while since I had a waffle for breakfast. But, I haven’t had liver mush (liver pudding) either, nor polenta. **Gave the old one to the thrift store yesterday. ***Key not left in box the first day, but I left a note to the Postman next morning, and when I got back and checked the key was in the mailbox.

I coated the waffle iron surface with olive oil, top & bottom. Turned it on, and shortly the green light came on to add the batter. I had added some Greek Yogurt and sour cream to the Bisquick recipe for more moisture, and the waffle came out perfectly, and very quickly also. Added a little grass fed butter, some Agave Nectar and Cary’s Sugar Free Syrup. **Another reminder, but I’ve put this maple flavored no-sugar syrup on carrots with a little butter, on the stove top and the syrup gets thinner and not thicker as sugar might. You end up with a maple flavored glazed carrot.

*Oh, and I had a large glass jar which held the whole box of Bisquick. Some time ago, I had mealy bugs get in my opened box of Bisquick and ruin it, and some dry beans also. So, I bought a large glass jar (gallon or half-gallon) with a tight fitting lid for the Bisquick. No bugs this morning and it’s been well more than a month since. I’ve also put all my dry beans in small glass or plastic containers. Most containers are Ball/Mason/Dukes Mayo jars, some with canning jar lids and some with the yellow plastic Dukes Mayo lids.


I do want to mention how I am using AI to enhance my food experience. I can take a photo of a recipe in a cookbook and then have the AI interpret it.

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This was Gemini’s response:

The attached file contains a recipe for “SMOKED OYSTER DIP”. The recipe lists the following ingredients:

  • 1 (3-ounce) package cream cheese, softened
  • ½ cup sour cream
  • 1 (3½-ounce) can smoked oysters, drained and chopped
  • ½ cup ripe olives, minced
  • 1 teaspoon onion, grated

The instructions are to thoroughly blend the cream cheese, sour cream, oysters, olives, and onion. The recipe suggests serving the dip with chips or crackers and states that it makes 1 cup. The recipe is attributed to Mrs. Landon B. Anderson (Connie).


I am impressed by how well the AI reads the text from a photo. And, if I wanted to add that recipe to a web page, or a Word document, the AI has done all the hard work for me. *It’s not always perfect, but when it is, it saves a lot of time. And then I can start exploring the recipe even further. Asking the calorie count, the suggested serving size and even reducing the ingredient amounts.


Gemini providing further exploration of the above recipe:

Okay, let’s calculate the approximate calories per serving based on our estimated serving size of 2 tablespoons (1/8 of the total recipe).

Here are the approximate total calories for the entire recipe:

  • Cream cheese: ~300 calories
  • Sour cream: ~180 calories (using an average)
  • Smoked oysters: ~160 calories  
  • Ripe olives: ~110 calories (using an average)
  • Onion: ~1 calorie

Total estimated calories for the entire recipe: 300 + 180 + 160 + 110 + 1 = 751 calories

Now, to find the calories per serving (assuming 8 servings of 2 tablespoons each):

Calories per serving ≈ Total calories / Number of servings Calories per serving ≈ 751 calories / 8 servings Calories per serving ≈ 93.88 calories

Therefore, each serving of approximately 2 tablespoons of this Smoked Oyster Dip would contain roughly 94 calories.

Important Note: This is an estimated calorie count. The actual calories per serving can vary depending on the specific brands and types of ingredients used. For more precise nutritional information, it’s always best to check the nutrition labels of your ingredients.


And I can also ask the AI to make a recipe “more diabetic friendly,” and it will make suggestions like, “substitute Greek Yogurt for sour cream.”

I’m also using an online tool, “My Fitness Pal” to keep track of the foods I eat, or plan to eat. I also track my weight and resting blood glucose level.

I can add recipes to this, so I can take a picture of a recipe from some source, an old cookbook for instance, and have the AI generate the text from the photo. I then paste the recipe ingredients text into the recipe creation tool at My Fitness Pal. It then searches for these ingredients and pretty soon, I have a new recipe, with the almost exact calorie counts. I did this for the “Black Beans and Quinoa” recipe that I had found online. I didn’t have to rely on someone else having already posted this recipe to the site. I did it.


And while I’m still think of it, I am going to try to use those empty glass vials that I bought to use as chess pieces for my new pill organizer. I hope I kept some and didn’t donate them all to the thrift store. I looked at the pill organizers that $T has, and none worked. Too small, odd shaped, all one unit and not daily.


I found a few of the tall glass vials and tried my morning tablets in it. They fit easily and the smaller, half sized glass vial might fit all the morning, or all the evening tablets also. I’m pretty sure I donated them, but if not I will have enough for my tablets and they will also be easily fillable for both morning & evening. True that the mouth of the vials is small, but they came in a box where the vials can line up nicely side by side. But, the small mouth means I can just turn the vial up and swallow.

I found the box of glass vials (3 different sizes) that I used to make a chess set. I don’t have enough of the 2/3rd size to have matching vials for 7 days, but I do have enough of the tall vials for 7 days, two vials per day. *While in Target today I happened to see a black silicone ice tray. It had 7 slots on each side (7 days, morning & evening). I thought the slots were about the right size, but once I got home, they were a little short, and the diameter of each vial was a little large for the slot, but the slots a flexible and that creates a snug fit for each vial. I think this might work.

**This worked fine. I’ve used two sizes of glass vials. The shorter vials are for my nighttime pills, and the taller for the morning pills. I’ve attached color coded labels and a 3 letter day code: SUN, MON, TUE, WED, THU, FRI, SAT for each day. I fill up each vial (did this morning for the first time) and screw the aluminum cap on each. They fit snuggly into the ice tray. After I use a vial, I leave the cap off but stuff the cap into the empty tray and turn the empty glass vial upside down and stuff it in the other section of that tray section. That way, moisture doesn’t get into the empty vial. I now keep the whole week’s worth of vials and the rubber tray on the shelf next to the bathroom sink.

And before I forget it, I saw a package of shower curtain hooks (the old style that act like carabiners) and I realized that they could be used to hook my large (non-electric) wok to my mobile kitchen stand. The little S hook that I had wouldn’t fit on one side of the cart, but did on the side… that I didn’t need it on. *I did buy some of these and have put about 5 or 6 pots & pans on the end of the mobile kitchen cart, that used to sit on the stove top.

**This works great. I’ve added about 5 pots & pans from my smallest Revere Ware pot, to the largest (non-electric wok). I can walk in and out of my kitchen and don’t brush against these dangling beside the mobile cart.

Another Trip to Washington, North Carolina? Hopefully.

I’m hoping to travel to “Little” Washington on Friday, but am wondering if the restaurant, “Down on Main Street,” will be open for lunch then, and/if the Friends of the Brown Library will still be having their Book Sale. *I see from the Friend’s Facebook page that they are suggesting Wednesday (today) be a snow day, and for volunteers to show up on Thursday, so it looks like a go for now.

We had a “big” snow last night which has been reported worse east of I95 and on the North Carolina coast. It doesn’t look that bad out my front door. There is snow on the ground and on the cars, but my sidewalk is mostly clear, with a little salt from before the snow.

I enjoyed my trip to Washington, North Carolina last year (the 19th of January, 2024). I had determined that both the Wilmington, North Carolina and Washington, North Carolina libraries were both having a book sale on January 19th. This was the day after my birthday. Actually, the day after mine and Mary Ann’s birthday, which we normally celebrate together. I was born on her 16th birthday, January 18th, 1954.

I asked Mary Ann if I could stay overnight on our birthday so that I would already be down on the coast. Still, it was about an hour, each way. First I drove down to Wilmington and bought several Michael Connelly novels (Harry Bosch), and then drove back up Hwy. 17 back through Jacksonville, and on to Washington, North Carolina to the Friends of Brown Library Book Sale at the Washington Civic Center. I wrote about this visit here. After the Book Sale, I drove over to Down on Main Street Restaurant for lunch and enjoyed another Shrimp Po’Boy & fried okra.

I found a Washington, North Carolina waterfront web cam sponsored by WITN TV7. I can’t find an easy link or embed code for this web cam view so here is a link to the WITN web cam page. The Washington web cam view is a LIVE Stream, and usually there is some traffic crossing the old Hwy. 17 bridge, so that you can tell you are looking at a video and not just a still picture. I will be able to see how much snow has disappeared by Friday morning.

I really have no books this year that I want to buy at the book sale. I have read all of the Harry Bosch novels and now regret that a little, because I’ve ran the gamut of the Bosch character. I am thinking that I may try to find some books that either Ray & Jacqueline’s children might enjoy, or Ashlyn Mitchell might be able to get some artistic ideas from. *I did leave a few books with Mary Ann on Saturday that I hoped Ray’s children might enjoy: 2 pictorial books about the Titanic & 1 pictorial book about George Armstrong Custer, and a set of 3 books about either Ireland or Scotland in the 1,300s. I’m not sure if they were fiction or based on historical facts, but the covers of the books reminded me of knighthood.

Sasson

Surprised I found these, on Amazon.
This seems to be historical fiction about Robert the Bruce, of Scottish fame & lore.
Author: N. Gemini Sasson

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I plan on going down to Washington, North Carolina tomorrow, but drove up to Raleigh today to go to Wegman’s. I like their sliced White American Cheese. But, I also stopped in to Whole Foods first and bought a couple of links of Chroizo sausage. I talked to the butcher girl who said she and her husband wanted to open their own butcher shop. I told her about Golden Hex and suggested she go there for ideas on exotic sausages. She said their Andouille sausage didn’t sell well so they quit making it. I told her that I liked the spiciness in my lentil soup.

While in Wegman’s I saw the black woman at the Service Desk and went over and asked if she was the one who had the daughter that thought her “labor” was induced by drinking Raspberry tea (or maybe some other Raspberry item). She was, but had not tried the tea yet. That’s been weeks, so maybe not much hope in getting a convert to love Bigelow’s Raspberry Royale tea like I do.

So, I’m in my car and pull up the Washington, North Carolina waterfront web cam. It played perfectly in real time, and even when I went into the grocery store. Whatever web cam and Internet connection they are using is working great. “Angel” I think. I do see that the camera angle adjusts slightly from day to night. At night you see further away over the Hwy. 17 bridge and during the day the bridge seems to be closer, but you don’t see much above it.

I did stop at the Harnett County Library on the way up to Raleigh and bought two large books. They were priced @$2 but I left a $5 for a little extra donation. One book was on Salvadore Dali and the other was on historical Russia. Funny, the Harnett County Library is also having a book sale tomorrow, but I’m only planning to visit the Friends of Brown Library Book Sale. I’ve already got my large gray book bag, or shopping bag that I use when buying a lot of books.


Well, it was a pretty good trip today. Instead of ordering the shrimp sandwich on a Kaiser roll, I ordered it on toasted Sourdough. The sourdough bread was good, but I think next time I’ll go back to the Kaiser Roll. Too much bread for the sandwich. Too few shrimp. I had the coleslaw on the sandwich, and not on the side. The fried okra were delicious. Comes with a small container of Cocktail Sauce.

I got to Washington, North Carolina about noon on Friday, and went directly to the Book Sale for the Friends of Brown Library. I found an open parking spot directly in front of the Washington Civic Center Exit door. The sidewalk still had salt on it, and there was slush in the street gutters.

I actually went to the book sale twice. Once, before I went to lunch, and then once afterwards. I had my large grey tote bag that holds a heavy amount of books. On my second visit, the books were so heavy that I left the bag at the exit door and then brought my car back and found a parking spot almost at the exit. I hope to show you images of all of the books that I bought today. I think I paid a total of $35 and donated an additional $5. Sounds like a lot, but the hardbacks (no matter how large & heavy were only @$2 and the paperbacks were 50 cents each. I brought the largest & heaviest one ,in with me when I got back home, and it might just be the largest book I’ve ever owned. $2 for a book that easily could be resold for $30 or $40, and that person would think they were getting a bargain, and they would be getting a bargain.

I did not buy any books for my own personal reading. I looked at a few biographies, but didn’t see any that piqued my interest. I did buy a number of Art books, and a few history books. The art books are for Ashlyn and the other books are for Ray’s kids. Not sure if they will be interested, but when I was a child, I think I would have been interested in a few of them: General Custer, the Titanic, WWII & it’s airplanes, and Sienna, Italy. *A few years ago I went to the Titanic Exhibit at the South Carolina State Museum in Columbia, South Carolina.

The Great Book of World War II Airplanes (1996, Crescent Books, pp. 632)

The cover of the above book is solid silver, on the front & back (no writing or pictures), but the spine has the book title & publisher. I paid $2 for this book. It is heavy, very heavy, and it has a great number of large fold-out pages, with colorfully illustrated drawings of various aircraft of World War II, and pages of detailed writings and illustrations.

Baron Von Richtoffen & His Bright Red Fokker.

*When I was a boy there were three things that piqued my interest: Ivanhoe & the Knights of the Round Table; WWI Bi-Planes, Capt. Eddie Rickenbacker/Baron von Richtofen, his bright red Fokker & the Blue Max; and hell if I can recall the third thing of interest, but when I do, I’ll write it down here. But, I can see a boy becoming engrossed in the above book and spending hours looking at the illustrations, reading the details, and probably buying and building several model airplane kits… and painting them.

USS Nantucket (Monitor Class Civil War Battleship)

I’m thinking that my third interest as a boy was the Monitor and the Merrimac. Civil War Era battleships. But I never really had a concept of how large the Monitor was as a boy. I thought of her as perhaps being a little bigger than a row boat, but in reality she was a large vessel capable of carrying about 85 crewmen.

As a boy, I built a version of the Monitor and the Merrimac out of balsa wood. My Monitor was shaped like a canoe with a flat deck and a round gun turret. Nothing like the real thing. Kinston has the Ironclad CSS Neuse, or her hull, on display.

The USS Nantucket, shown above, was a Monitor Class battleship. Built low to the water, and subject to sinking easily in rough seas, a dangerous vessel to be assigned to. George L. Morton, a distant relative living down in Wilmington, North Carolina for a while would command the above ship during the Spanish-American War but it would never make it to Cuba before the short war ended. The joke among the crewmen was that “they killed more Spaniards in front of the Orton Hotel (downtown Wilmington hotel) that they did from the decks of the Nantucket. In other words their verbal braggadocio of what they would do as they stood in front of the Orton Hotel far exceeded any actual combat victories. *As I recall they were afraid of firing their large cannon because the large oak beam that held it in place had been cracked at some point and they were afraid that if they fired the cannon, the recoil might push the gun turret off the ship.

The Spanish-American War ended abruptly and the officers & crew of the Nantucket returned to Wilmington on the train. They had been on maneuvers around Hilton Head and Beaufort, South Carolina but never headed further south. The vessel had a “rapid fire” machine gun (probably not called a machine gun at the time) and it’s my belief that one of these was procured from the Nantucket and used in the Wilmington Race Riot later that year, 1898. It was mounted on a horse drawn cart and hauled about town and used to kill “darkies.”

*I do recall that the actor/comedian Bob Cummings, had a TV show, and every so often he would play a relative of his (maybe his character’s grandfather) that had been a WWI pilot. I always perked up when this character came on, dressed in his old pilot’s headgear.

Oh, the web cam view of the Washington, North Carolina waterfront has about a 30 seconds lag time. This camera and/or it’s Internet connection is excellent. It streams fluidly showing automobiles both on the waterfront and crossing the old Hwy. 17 bridge without “skipping a beat.” In fact, this web cam view is the only one of about 10 different web cams that is LIVE. The rest are stills that update periodically. And the stream played fluidly both on my Chromebook at home and while I was in my car on my Android phone.

I took the short route to Washington, but took the scenic route back, and stopped once, in Snow Hill, to buy a pint of whole milk at the Piggly Wiggly. This was the same Piggly Wiggly that I had bought really good pork chops one time.

The scenic route from Little Washington comes near but not actually by “Voice of America.” I considered this the “Cold War Era” propaganda tool by the United States. There were large radio towers spread across a large field and American propaganda was streamed 24/7 across the Atlantic Ocean and across Europe to the Communist countries. I just recently came across YouTube videos of the Voice of America towers being demolished in 2016. I went over there before that time and did see them. There was a home in the area that I think had an underground component, but when I went looking for it via the Google Street View, I couldn’t find it.

Then stopped again in Newton Grove at the Pharmacy to eat a Strawberry Cheesecake ice cream on a regular cone. One scoop of ice cream on a regular cone is still just $2. Nothing for tax, or tax included. *Harris Teeter carries the “Roadrunner Raspberry” ice cream, which is the same name as the Hershey’s version. I have yet to buy any since the Newton Grove Pharmacy stopped selling it a couple of years ago.

Of note, both going and returning, when I neared Greenville & Washington, NC, there was a whole lot of untouched snow still left in the fields and the yards. There is something almost melancholy about snow going undisturbed by laughing & playing children with red noses. As I recall, the snow was still on the ground down near the coast, but as I returned to the Fayetteville area, it was mostly gone from the ground.

Peter Ganine Gothic Sculpted Chess Set

I’m currently reading the Dick Van Dyke biography, “My Lucky Life In and Out of Show Business: A Memoir.”

I am enjoying it and am a little over a third of the way through at about 100+ pages. I’ve put the book in the little basket next to my toilet. That almost assures that I will read through it at a fairly fast pace since I read a few pages each time I go to the bathroom, and with my prostate, that is quite often during a day and night;-)

I’ve read several biographies/memoirs this past year since I started by reading the Matthew Perry memoir, “Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing.” Recall that I had come across this memoir in one of the “Little Lending Libraries” and took it to pollinate another lending library location.

Not sure why I came up with the idea to go from one “LLLs” to another, taking one or two books from one location and then leaving each of them at other locations. Sort of playing “a Book Bee.” And, I’ve picked up and taken quite a few books to different locations both in Fayetteville and to other cities, towns and even a different state. I think it was Bennettsville, South Carolina where I stopped by several “LLLs” both taking and leaving various books, some children’s and some adult books.

So, I came across the Matthew Perry book about the 25th of October, 2023. I saw his face through the glass, which filled the cover of his book, and thought that someone, not me, would like to read about one of the recognizable “Friends.”

Less than a week later, I was at home on my laptop and happened upon one of those memorial web sites that lists, both names & photos of, the famous people who have died during the current year. The end of October is usually a little early to be looking for one of these sites. I might see a program on TV at the end of December and then will go to one or more of these websites to get a more complete list of the deaths. I started to scroll down the list and the third photo down the page was the picture of Matthew Perry, the same one that appears on the cover of his memoir. I said to myself, “I didn’t know that he was dead,” and then I went elsewhere to find out when he had died. To my surprise, he had died a few days after I had gotten his memoir, on October 28, 2023. I then said to myself, “That’s hinkey. I guess I’ll have to read his book.” And a few days later I started reading it.

I think it was about the third page into the Matthew Perry book that he stated, “I should be dead by now.” I’m pretty sure he didn’t actually think that his death would be as soon, but he was being honest about how his life long drug addiction (“The Big Terrible Thing“) had created several drastic events from which he could have easily died. He even had to wear a colostomy bag, which collects human waste, for a while due to his addiction.

Perry’s mom and dad had divorced when he was still a child. His father was an actor and his mother, for a while, was the Press Secretary for Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau of Canada. Later she would marry Keith Morrison, a very recognizable Canadian broadcast journalist, who Matthew Perry said treated him respectfully.

Perry never got control and although others may have provided him with the drugs that actually killed him, he obviously went looking for those drugs and was not innocent in his own death. I would classify his death as more of “an assisted suicide.” He made a lot of money from his part in the “Friends” franchise, and he spent a bunch of money on drugs. e.g. He once traveled by private jet from Europe to America and when he found that American doctors would not supply his drug needs, immediately returned by private jet to Europe.

I finished the Perry book and then I came across a memoir about John F. Kennedy, Jr. written by Robert T. Littell, his long time friend, called “The Men We Became, My Friendship with John F. Kennedy, Jr.” This was the first memoir that I absolutely enjoyed. There were both places and people mentioned in the memoir that I knew, or knew of. Kennedy, Jr. was married on one of the Georgia islands below St. Simons Island. An island only accessible via boat and not by bridge and auto. And, Christiane Amanpour, a journalist and television host for CNN, was a college roommate (several students, both men & women sharing a house) of JFK, Jr. for a couple of years.

It was probably while reading this memoir that I started googling for images of people, places and things mentioned in the book. This extra information deepened the reading experience and my understanding of the man.

I’ve attended several of the book sales sponsored by “Friends of the Cumberland County Library,” in the last couple of years. It was almost an afterthought at one of these sales that I walked along an isle that had various biographies.

Nothing much interested me until I saw the smiling face of Tim Russert on a book. I bought it.

Tim Russert was the moderator for “Meet the Press,” a long time, maybe “the longest running show,” on the air. A weekly political news show, that aired each Sunday morning, and provided interviews with various famous & not so famous politicians of the day. Russert was always well prepared and fair in his in-depth interviews. And he was a life long fan of the Buffalo Bills, and a faithful Catholic.

This memoir was more of a lauding of the life of Tim Russert by family, friends, fellow employees and acquaintences that Russert had worked with, loved and befriended throughout his years. He died on June 13, 2008 at the age of 58 years.

The next memoir I came across at an LLL in North Raleigh, well probably the outskirts of North Raleigh. I had stopped at the “Savory Spice Shop” located in the “Lafayette Village” which is a European-styled village in North Raleigh. It offers gourmet restaurants and upscale shopping. I decided to take an unfamiliar route and then detoured through an older upscale residential area. I’m not sure if I could find it again, but on that day I was driving through this neighborhood and had turned around to head back out the way I had entered. I noted an “LLL” off from one of the homes so I stopped and walked over to it. It was here that I found the memoir by Michelle Obama called “Becoming.” Another large smiling face prominently displayed on the cover of the book.

I really enjoyed reading this memoir! And more than the other biographies/memoirs that I had just read, I started googling for illustrations of people, places, things and events that had occurred in the life of Michelle & Barak Obama.

I recall that she likes smoked oysters. I must have known, but didn’t recall that she was a Harvard educated lawyer. And I listened to several speeches by her husband Barak Obama from which I came to respect him even more. He was the difference between night and day between an educated President of the United States, and a Presidential businessman. And Obama was “the day.”

I neither felt sorry for her nor envious of her good fortune because much of it was based upon her hard work, and being fortunate to have a loving and supportive family. And that she had a loving and supportive husband, and that she was a loving and supportive wife and mother. I like her.

And now I’ve come to be reading the memoir of Dick Van Dyke and am enjoying that also. Not quite as much as Michelle Obama’s, but Dick Van Dyke seems to be an honorable man. I seem to recall that he might have had a problem with alcohol, but I haven’t gotten to that part in his book yet.

I now realize that I had forgotten one other bio that I read, and now do not recall in which order I read it. I know it was after the Matthew Perry memoir (the first I read) and that’s about it. The biography I had forgotten was by Capt. Chesley “Sully” Sullenberger, “Highest Duty, My Search for What Really Matters.

He knew he wanted to fly from an early age.

His meticulous preparation, throughout his entire life led him to be the “right person at the right time” for landing a commercial jet filled with passengers safely on a river and not a runway.

The jet he landed on the river is now in a museum in Charlotte, North Carolina which is named after him, “The Sullenberger Aviation Museum.” I was planning a brief trip to Asheville in August and one of my thoughts had been to stop by this museum on the way to Asheville, but it happened to be closed on Mondays, and I went through Charlotte on Monday, August 19th. I only stayed a night in Asheville and then returned home on Tuesday, August 20th (2024). My last stop in Asheville before leaving, was to the New Morning Gallery in the Biltmore Village District. This is one of the areas that would be devastated by the 100 Years Flooding caused when Hurricane Helene passed through about five weeks later on September 24th – 27th. And I see that this gallery is still closed as of December 17th, 2024.

Perhaps I am not worthy of making the following comment, but my impression from reading his bio is that he hasn’t found “What Really Matters,” at least not yet. He has a wife and two daughters.

Now back to my current read, the Dick Van Dyke memoir, and why I named the title of this blog posting, “Peter Ganine Gothic Sculpted Chess Set.” I watched the Dick Van Dyke Show when I was a boy. I even recall a haunting episode in which (I think it was a dream sequence on the show.) there is a living room closet full of walnuts, and when the door was opened all the walnuts fell out onto the living room floor. I think there were aliens involved and missing thumbs. And I hope to re-watch this episode either later today or in the next couple of days. But that is the advantage I have of reading this memoir, and all the references to memorable people, places & events. I can google for more info, and I can even re-watch the episodes that Dick Van Dyke mentions in his book. I can google for photos of Maureen Stapleton and Jean Stapleton. I’ve watch the pilot episode of the show, and the two part episodes which included Jerry Van Dyke, Dick’s actual brother. *Jerry died a few years ago, but Dick is still alive as of a few days ago, an old man, but still with a sense of humor and a clear mind. I just heard him tell someone on a video that he was 12 years old in his mind, but 99 years old in real life. I even can re-watch some of his movies, “Mary Poppins,” or “Chitty Chitty Bang Bang,” or “Fritzwilli” (which I enjoyed watchin some years ago which includes Barbara Feldon (from “Get Smart” fame). *Chitty Chitty Bang Bang” was an Ian Fleming (of James Bond fame) children’s novel.

I just saw an online item that Dick Van Dyke was rescued by neighbors and good Samaritans from the recent Franklin Fire in Malibu where his current home is located. They also rescued his cat, Bobo. And Van Dyke celebrated his 99th Birthday on Friday, December 13th.

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But, in re-watching several episodes of “The Dick Van Dyke Show,” my eyes immediately were drawn to a chess set displayed on a table in the set’s living room.

My favorite chess set was styled exactly like the one displayed in the show, and it is a “Peter Ganine Gothic Sculpted Chess Set.” I’m not sure if this set was first sold in 1957, but my set would have probably been sold & bought by me in the late 1960’s. I no longer have this set and I have played with quite a few other styles of sets through the years. Now I mostly play online, almost daily between myself and “the computer.” I win some I lose more.

The Ganine set was my favorite long ago, and I still favor it some, but in the last couple of years I have begun to favor a more minimalist style, both in metal, plastic and wood. About a year ago I even made a set and painted it from simple square blocks of wood. I glued some of them together, and pasted googly eyes on some and even used colored thumbtacks to represent the shields of the pawn warriors. The rooks include little colored flag thumbtacks as if a flag was flying from the castle turret (Turm).

The “tubular minimalist” chess set to the left above is my current favorite, but I also like the “Isle of Lewis” chess set on the right. I’m not sure if I had a dream, or if I actually saw an example of a pregnant queen (chess set piece), but I have since thought that a pregnant queen is the ultimate ruler. Who could be more vicious that a pregnant queen seeking to not only protect her king, but her child and the kingdom? I even cut some PVC piping to make a minimalist tubular chess set and thought of adding a large marble as symbolic of a pregnant queen’s stomach.


I’m in the process of having read six biographies during the past twelve months, but I’ve also read 30 of the Michael Connelly detective novels in about the same amount of time. I’ve read all of the Harry Bosch novels and several of the John McAvoy (journalist/detective) novels.

I watched the six seasons of “BOSCH,” and since, three seasons of “Bosch Legacy,” and during that time I liked the Harry Bosch character played by actor, Titus Welliver. But, I found as I read more of the Connelly novels that I came to hate Harry Bosch as he was writtern. Beyond hate, I despised him. Why?

It started during the second published Bosch novel, “Black Ice.” I did not read these novels in the order they were published. Some I did, but there was some jumping around. In the second novel Harry becomes involved in a case in which another L.A. detective has apparently committed suicide. Blown most of his head off in a cheap L.A. motel.

The Interim Medical Examiner examines the remains of the dead detective and from a frontal portion of the skull realizes that the dead detective was hit in the head from behind, shortly before his head was blown off.

Harry and the Interim Medical Examiner are “friends with benefits,” and while together Harry is pumping her also for information about the autopsy she has recently performed. She resists telling Harry what she has found (that it was murder and not suicide), and tells him he can’t tell anyone her findings because it would jeopardize her becoming the permanent Medical Examiner, which is the position she wants. Harry assures her that he won’t share the information she give him and eventually she agrees and tells Harry her findings. A little later she asks Harry if she can shower and he agrees. No sooner has she walked into the bathroom and started to shower, than Harry picks up his phone and calls a journalist acquaintance and gives the journalist a “heads up” that he journalist should check more closely into whether the detective’s death was suicide or murder. Harry then gets dressed and heads off to Mexico on the trail of a murderer.

This betrayal of trust by Harry toward the Medical Examiner was the start of my disrespect and hatred toward the character of detective Harry Bosch. She hadn’t even gotten the Bosch stink off of her in the shower before he had betrayed his word to her.

The next Bosch novel, or perhaps the second to next novel I read was published about eight years after “Black Ice,” and was called “City of Bones.” It’s in this novel that Harry once again contacts the Medical Examiner (now permanent) because he needs her to verify whether a bone that was found on a hill, was a human bone. He contacts the examiner on a Saturday late and she has a scheduled date, so she tells Harry to come over, but… and when Harry knocks at her front door, she take the bone, shuts the door and leaves Harry outside. Shortly she returns and verifies to Harry that it is a human bone and it also belonged to a child.

Now Connelly steps in to make commentary about how shamefully she treated Harry. But, in my mind, and because of having just read about Harry’s earlier betrayal, I’m thinking that if Harry had betrayed my trust, I wouldn’t be helping him out by having him come over to my house at all. I would have told him, Harry you need to wait until Monday and get in line first thing. After all the child that the bone belonged to had been dead several years, not just recently murdered.